Back in the days before we had mobile phones with thousands of photos, people carried important pictures with them in their wallets. Here are the pictures that Mom carried, showing her family over the years.
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Family tree update – 7 May 2023
I just updated the family tree , which had last been updated on 26 March 2022. Here are some of the key changes:
- The tree now only contains individuals that I have verified to be relatives. That eliminates some speculative connections that I have in my own software, including the Reinhard tree that had been provided by Jim Matthias and Albert Wagner, the town historian of Niedernberg Germany. Despite two decades of searching, I have yet to find any documentary or DNA evidence that supports the connection of my great grandfather Alexander Reinhard to the Niedernberg Reinhard tree. Although, the connection to Niedernberg seems solid, there needs to be more evidence.
- A few individuals have been added, primarily to the Fogarty line, based on DNA evidence.
- About 40 more sources were added, including some 1950s census records and other records confirming information already know. The most significant were the death dates and cause of death for my Fogarty grand uncles (Patrick T. and William H.) and grand aunt (Mary F.).
Please let me know if you see any errors or have suggestions for lines of inquiry.
Mom and Dad’s Fiftieth Wedding Anniversary Party
This party celebrated the 50th wedding anniversary of Bill Conlon and Dorothy Figueroa. The event took place at the Carltun in Eisenhower Park on May 31, 2002.
You had to be there to appreciate the elegance of this festive occasion, with great food and drink, and the fabulous staff who arranged for about 60% more seats, with many small tables, to facilitate mingling by all the guests. You also had to be there to want to watch familial small-talk, laughter, and reminiscences by our younger selves. It is really wonderful to see and hear those who have left us since, then including the three Conlon brothers and Joe’s good friend Phyllis.
But if you weren’t there, or want to remember the warm feelings, watch this video.
Gene Thomas had an intuitive feeling for the flow of conversation and did a great job of capturing the party. In fact none of the clips have been edited, although a couple were dropped to reduce the length.
The title photo of Bill and Dot running down the steps at the church was taken by Dot’s brother Jim.
And here is a short clip of the cast of characters.
Family Photos
Photos were an ever present part of family life. I suspect Dad’s interest in photography was piqued by his brothers-in-law, James and Richard, who were quite accomplished.
His first camera was a compact 35mm Bolsey Model B, which came in a brown leather case and supported a flash bulb attachment. He used an exposure meter, which became a theme for us.
Around 1965, he purchased a 35mm Yashica Pentamatic with an exposure timer, which with a tripod, allowed him to get into the photos, instead of being just behind the camera. Dad shot 35mm slides, mostly Kodak, but he switched to Agfachrome for a while.

Dad would get out the camera for all the important occasions – birthdays, Easter, Thanksgiving, and Christmas and took it along when we traveled. The mandatory family photo was sometimes stressful, with some cursing over the tripod, the exposure timer, or just because we were being bratty kids.
With a new roll, there was always the worry about the film being taken up. I recall many times when the film didn’t advance and shots were lost, and some times when Dad wasn’t sure and would go into a closet to check without ruining the whole roll. Sometimes he would gather us for a photo just to finish off a roll, so it could be mailed off in a small metal can to Kodak and eventually other labs. Until we moved to Houston, there was a new roll of film every 4 to six weeks.
One of my fondest memories is when the developed slides returned in the mail: a family would gathering for a slide show in the living room, typically on Sunday night. First the screen would come out of its box in the front hall closet, to be set up in front of the window. Then he would haul the slide projector from his bedroom closet and set it up on the dining room table. He fed the slides manually, and sometimes had the wrong orientation, which would exasperate him.
Eventually he bought an automatic unit from Sears that used slide trays and had both timed and manual advance. Of course the slides still needed to loaded in the right orientation, and sometimes the slides wouldn’t advance properly, so there was still some frustration and an opportunity to curse at the machine. Dad ended up buying more slide trays, so each new roll of film only needed to be loaded once, and we could see many more pictures in an evening. 
By the 1980s, with all the kids gone, there were only a few occasions for a show, like when we came back for Christmas (see Dad’s list of trips to Bethpage). Also, Dad had switched to a Pentax ME Super and from slide to print film, so the slide projector was seldom used otherwise. The last slideshow I recall was when Judith and I and Barbara and Dave were visiting, probably over Christmas of 1997.
We were shocked that so many of the slides had faded completely or in one of the pigments, and I wanted them to be scanned for preservation. I looked at slide scanners, but realized it would not be a good idea to sentence Dad to a lifetime of slide scanning in the basement. Fortunately, the Kodak PhotoCD became an option, and Dad went through the slide to select those to be scanned, making a list with a caption and date or estimate date based on the month and year printed on the slide carrier.
There were originally 5 CDs, each with 80 to 100 images. I extended Dad’s list with additional columns for people, places, events, and trips. To allow quick and easy access, I created a javascript and associated data structure with pointers to images in directories. I provided this on CD to the family, but storage limits forced me to scale the images to just 640×480, much less resolution that the original 3072×2048 scans, which is the resolution at https://hit.iwb.mybluehost.me/photos/large/index.html.
It has long been my desire to display the full resolution images and to have a more robust approach to image management. I think the images themselves should carry the information in meta data, such as IPTC, so they can be indexed automatically, but especially so the association of caption, date, and people is permanent, and dependent on file structure or a separate database or program. I don’t know if I will ever get around to it, but it’s on my to-do list.
BTW, I ended up getting Dad’s Bolsey when he bought the Yashica and used it for about 25 years until he gave me a Pentax of my own. I used that camera to take pictures as a child and teen, trying to follow in his footsteps.
Family Tree Update 2022
The family tree has been updated with additional information gathered from about 80 new source documents.
Family tree update 2021
My Dad would have been 93 years old on 17 January, so in honor of his birthday, I decided to update the family tree.
Frankly, I haven’t been doing much genealogy work over the last 23 months, but I got the bug again after the recent election (I may wanted a distraction). I have included 165 new sources, many of which pertain to multiple individuals in a family.
I added an unrelated person, Bill Timmerman, who was my grandfather’s close friend and whom my mother called Uncle Bill. We have a doll that Uncle Bill gave to my Mom upstairs.
My big focus in December was trying to resolve the connection between my great grandmother Alice Lyons and the Lyons family that lived out here in San Francisco. My Dad and my uncle Joe both visited Nellie Lyons, and 20 years ago we went looking for (and found) her house in the Twin Peaks. And their Aunt Alice would send money out to two priests who were sons of Nellie’s sister Katherine. I have found a DNA connection, but so far have not found a common ancestor.
Many of the new sources help to flesh out the stories of the Figueroa cousins on my Mom’s side, but I didn’t add many new individuals. I continue to search for the Reinhard connection in Niedernberg, Germany but keep coming up empty. The information I have on the Reinhards, provided to me some 20 years ago, is starting to look a little suspect, so I will have to dig in.
When I first began this family tree, I naively imported a GEDCOM file full of people that looked like they might be related. After I got some experience, I realized I shouldn’t take anyone’s research for granted, and needed to verify everything. So as my final step before updating the online tree, I double-checked and then deleted those (several hundred) unrelated individual.
Family Tree update
It has been about 20 months since I last posted an update, so here is a revised tree dated 17 Feb 2019.
This update includes additional source citations, which begin around source number 950. Most of these are associated with events, for example residence as culled from directories. Many are also duplicate sources, as I try to add them into my tree whenever I update records on ancestry.com or familysearch.org.
As always, if you see any errors or can suggest additions, please let me know.
In Dad’s words
Back in 2002, on the occasion of my parent’s 50th wedding anniversary, we asked Gino Thomas to interview my father to gather his recollections of important events. I thought that using an unrelated third party might pull out stories that he might be reluctant to tell his kids, either because we already had heard them, or because we might be reluctant to ask. Gino did a fabulous job and he and my Dad had a great time over the roughly three hours that they talked on camera.
I had planned to make a transcript and add captioning, and also try to clean up some sound issues. But after 15 years, I decided it was better to just release this unedited and as-is.
Dad’s fabulous memory is on display as he talks about growing up in the small town of Whitman, the aunts and uncles that cared for him after his mother and step-mother died, his high school and college experiences and the war years. The interviews continues to his fascinating professional career beginning with the first facsimile systems at Western Union, followed by jobs in the aerospace field, including his role in charge of test engineering for the Lunar Module.
William Martin Conlon talks about growing up in Whitman, his WWII service, education, and work life from Bill Conlon on Vimeo.
Family Tree Update
Memorial Day is a good time to update the family genealogy web site. Since I published the last update on 29 August 2016, I have found 270 new source documents covering birth, marriage, death, immigration, military service, residence, etc.
Many of these new sources confirm facts already known, but there are some interesting new findings, too. In addition to including the reference documents here, I have taken to including references from multiple sources, mostly from ancestry.com or familysearch.org to make sure other researchers can access this material.
Along the way, genetic genealogy confirmed a new line of cousins, descended from Timothy Kelley, the heretofore unknown brother of my great great grandmother Bridget Kelley. The first clues came from the persistence of Pat McGrath, whose husband is descended from Timothy Kelley. Pat noticed repeated references to my great uncle James T. Conlon and my grandfather Martin J. Conlon, as pall bearers.
We ultimately used DNA tests to confirm that her husband and I are 4th cousins, which makes our great great grandparents siblings. We will likely never know the names of their parents, but this was a good example of collaboration between conventional and genetic genealogy.
Family Tree Update
I last published my family tree on 28 August 2015, and am pleased to issue an update with more than 150 additional source documents, mostly focused on my Irish ancestry from my father’s side of the family.
My research has been most productive on my Fogarty line, including confirmation that they came from Ballyporeen in Ireland (in Gaelic, the town is called Béal Átha Póirín), and identification of the surname of my Great Great Grandmother, Margaret Walsh. In addition, I resolved some long-standing rumors.
Let’s start with the rumors. My grandmother, Margaret Elena Fogarty, died of breast cancer in 1927 at age 38. In 1931 my grandfather, Martin Joseph Conlon, married Ella Fox, who gave birth to my uncle Ed (Martin Edward Conlon) the next year. Six weeks later, the family was in a major car accident in Cohasset, killing Ella, sending my uncle Joe (Joseph F. Conlon) to the hospital for a few months, and giving my father the scar on his chin (the dimple on my chin was not inherited from him).
My father recalled that there was a court case (I hope to someday find the records), and my grandfather never again drove a car, despite owning the Jenney gasoline station in Whitman. I remember my Dad saying that he thought Ella Fox and Elena Fogarty were related, and that there might have been some bad blood between my grandfather and his Fogarty in-laws after the accident. Despite the accident, the Fogarty family in Whitman was very close to my Dad and his brothers.
Two years ago I visited my Dad’s first cousin Manus Getchell, whose mother Mary Frances Fogarty was the younger sister of my grandmother. We spent a few hours talking about the family history and looking at pictures, and he gave me Aunt Alice Fogarty Collins‘ photo album from when she was young. Manus told me about taking his family to Ireland some time back and visiting the Fogarty home town of Ballyporeen, which is also the ancestral home of President Ronald Reagan, and that the locals took him down to the cemetery where they said our relatives were buried.
An Irish researcher, Breda Nolan, has put together an extensive tree of the inter-connected families of Ballyporeen, but the source documents are not linked to individuals, so I viewed this as indicative but not conclusive. In genealogy, as in politics, an oft-told lie eventually becomes the truth, so before publishing this as a fact I wanted some documentary confirmation.
We began with a DNA test in the hope that it would turn up some mutual cousins, who I hoped would help me confirm the origin. I have found though that the autosomal DNA comparisons only allow us to confirm a family connection, they don’t replace old fashioned research.
So I turned next to the nephew of Ella Fox, who was the son of Ella’s brother Thomas Joseph Fox. My Dad had given me a scanned photo of Tom and Ella, and Uncle Ed’s daughter Rita gave me some information about the nephew. My telephone conversation with him and and some emails confirmed that Tom and Ella were from Ballyporeen, but were they related to us? For this, a DNA test was perfect, and it showed that he was indeed a second cousin on the Fogarty line.
At this point, I decided to renew my Ancestry subscription to see if I could find any documents to add to what was now a very convincing story.
- Tom Fox’s draft registration showed he was born in Skeheenarinky, near Ballyporreen.
- Ella Fox’s immigration records showed she was from the adjacent Coolagarranroe Woods. Confusingly she gave different birth years, on different records. Perhaps she thought she would be more marriageable if she was younger?
- I hit the jackpot with the immigration records from my great grandfather, William H. Fogarty, which confirmed his Ballyporeen origins.
- Next I found some Irish census records, from 1901 for Coolagarranroe, and with the aid of my cousin Tom Fox, could confirm the house his father and aunt lived in.
- From his own records, Tom also provided my with the last name of our Great Great Grandmother, Margaret Walsh.
So thanks to a team effort, I have a new travel destination. And best of all, there are handball alleys in Ballyporeen, so I will bring my gear and seek some matches to make room for a Guinness afterwards.



